Thursday, 3 October 2013

Cyberbullying

This was an assignment I did about 9 months ago for a Computer Law class. It is the best course I have taken since I got here. The lecturer, David Clark, is one very intelligent lawyer and you can tell when he talks. You can tell he has a very good grasp of the subject matter with lots of experiences to draw examples from. He is one dude I look forward to listening to again. His classes are usually very interactive but I still find a way 2 doze off ‘sha’.  I didn’t however get a direct result for this assignment, so I can’t really say how well I discussed the topic in his opinion. Anyways, It’s long though but read and enjoy…..

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Cyberbullying was coined from two English words; ‘cyber’ which means anything in the context of computers, computer networks or virtual reality, and ‘bullying’ which is the act of intimidating another person.  Dictionary.com defined cyberbullying as “the act of harassing someone online by sending or posting mean messages, usually anonymously” but cyberbullying is defined in Legal glossaries as
  • Actions that use information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group of individuals that is intended to harm another or others.
  • Use of communication technologies for the intention of harming another person
  • Use of internet service and mobile technologies such as web pages and discussion groups as well as instant messaging or SMS text messaging with the intention of harming another person.
Cyberbullying was first used by Bill Belsey, an anti-bully activist and he defined it as "the use of information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group that is intended to harm others." 

Bullying has always been a part of the teenage life and will continue to be no matter the amount of resources we put into eradicating it, it’s just human nature to desire superiority. We can only try to mitigate its occurrence but the existence/improvement in technology has continuously frustrated the effort, as it becomes more and more difficult to create a control point. Since, school is the location where bullying majorly takes place, it is only reasonable to control it from that point. It is only reasonable to set Regulations for schools to properly address the issue and sanction bullies as appropriate and make them understand the implication of their actions. However, with technology becoming a part of our everyday life, bullying has gotten to a whole new dimension where the bully doesn’t even need physical contact with his/her victim to cause even far greater harm to the victim. With cyberbullying the perpetrator can easily bully someone else at the comfort of his room/house using either phone, social sites, emails or text messages.

Cyberbullying can be as simple as continuing to send e-mail or text harassing someone who has said they want no further contact with the sender. It may also include public actions such as repeated threats, sexual remarks, pejorative labels (i.e., hate speech or defamatory false accusations), ganging up on a victim by making the person the subject of ridicule in online forums, hacking into or vandalizing sites about a person, and posting false statements as facts which is usually aimed at discrediting or humiliating the targeted person. Also, with technology the magnitude/effect of attack can easily be aggravated using the slightest efforts while eliminating the ability to trace the indulgers (popularly known as trolls) in the act.

Moreover, it should be noted that cyberstalking is much related to cyberbullying but still different in the sense that they seek to address different age bracket. Cyberstalking can be associated with Adults while cyberbullying is associated with teenagers and children but cyberstalking is however well established compared to the cyberbullying.

Internet Meets Bullying
With the internet age, cyberbullying can’t help but flourish as people especially the young generations practically live on the internet. Fine, the positive impact of the internet on our day to day activities cannot be overemphasized as a whole lot of things that were cumbersome in times past have been simplified. For example, when you forget to copy a file from your home computer, you can just easily connect remotely and there you go, you have your file without having to go back home. But, the negative side of the internet and the harm it could cause is becoming a concern as it's now a lot easier to engage in unlawfully act with almost 100% anonymity. Internet, in itself cannot cause any harm but then can be used as a vehicle/tool to cause harm by it users coupled with existing laws. An example is the freedom of speech and expression in the US which liberates anyone to express whatever pleases them and this include hate speeches not considering the effect it might have on the subject party.  So, imagine the havoc that can be caused with a law that allows anyone to say whatever pleases him (lets use hate messages in this case), coupled with internet (where you can magnify your message count by encouraging people to help, where your message can reach its destination in a spilt second), coupled with anonymity.  

I was going through an article and cyberbullying was presumed as a virus where the carriers don’t even know they are carriers of the virus and it only takes a minimum level of interaction to contact the virus. However, this virus feeds deeply on its host’s emotions; examples are Hate, Anger, Envy, Insecurity and Peer pressure; it only takes this emotions to be directed to one particular host till the host becomes suppressed.

Cyberbullying, in the past years have been identified as the major cause of depression and suicide among teenagers and below is a set of statistics related to cyberbullying and technology/internet ;

42% of teenagers that have access to Technology have reported incidence of cyberbullying,

69% of teenagers own their own computer or Smartphone device,

80% of these teens are active on one or more social site’

The average US teen sends 420 text messages each week, that’s 60 texts a day, this is equal to 1 text every 12 minutes;  this is twice the amount of text an average adult sends and girls between 14-17 sends an average of 100 per day;

Everyday 1 in 3 kids aged 3 – 5 use the internet;
                 1 in 2 kids aged 6 – 9 use the internet;

7.5 million Users of Facebook are under the age of 13; and 1 in 10 of these kids have reported being bullied on the site (this means 750,000 kids, more than the total population of Washington DC).

81% of youths say it’s easier to get away with bullying online than in person.

Looking at the above statistics we can agree that cyberbullying has reached a point where it has to be "checkmated" and there are a number of approaches to solving this problem; this could be, but not limited to law reforms, restrictions and awareness.

In addressing this issue, we can clearly say this is an example of the fact that technology outpaces law, gone are the days when there has to be a physical contact to bully and as a result physical evidence can be seen on the victim to validate that he has been bullied and the bully can’t easily get away unlike the cyber world. Also, guess what? It has become a lot easier to bully and now a lot of people can join in the act without even knowing who is being attacked. And unlike the real world, when it comes to the internet what we call private isn’t exactly private, we just want to believe its private. An example, is your real life one on one conversation with your friend, that can be tagged as private but you can’t exactly say your one on one conversation over the internet is private because 1. There are records of this chat which anyone could get hold of. 2. Anyone with the right technology can even eavesdrop on the conversation without the knowledge of the parties involved. So, on the internet, what we call private isn’t really private. Now, let’s imagine a girl’s conversation with her crush getting leaked to another girl who likes the same boy and the trauma she can cause the other girl by posting this so called “private messages” online where other school members can see it. The chances of this happening in the real world are very slim as there will be no records of the conversation. Megan Meier’s case of 2006 in the US where she committed suicide as a result of her ‘private massages’ being leaked and the reaction she got from the school community.

Like it is often said, the first step to solving a problem is identifying it has a problem and not until then can we seek a true solution for it. Now that we have identified cyberbullying as a problem that requires urgent solution, we can set to tackle it and the first plain solutions I recommend is awareness. Even the bible says “My people perish because they lack knowledge”, one will be surprised at the number of people who don’t even know anything about cyberbullying. Campaigns and awareness programs should be taken to the street in other to educate people about cyberbullying. Just like I related cyberbullying to a virus earlier and its host not even knowing he or she is a carrier of this deadly disease, people help promote cyberbullying without even knowing it because they are made to believe what is not and therefore unleash anger on some innocent, defenseless soul. However, when we say awareness, what areas should these awareness programs tackle?
  1. The awareness program should educate the affected population especially the teens on ways in which they can be ‘unintentionally’ involved in cyberbullying because with this age of internet, all you need to be involved or to promote cyberbullying is a few seconds of your time and a click. So, without even knowing they promote cyberbullying, seeing it as just having fun and being trendy.
  2. Another area the awareness program should address is ways in which people could prevent themselves from being cyberbullied. One major difference between bullying in reality and cyberbullying is the ability to prevent the effect on you. In physical bullying, you might not be able to prevent the pain a bully physically inflicts on you but in cyberbullying you can actually prevent the pain being inflicted just by ignoring the messages, blocking the channel of communication or by just totally staying off the internet for the time being. So, the cyberbullied need to be aware of ways they can reduce the effect on themselves.
  3. After being cyberbullied and trying the possible best to prevent the act but the trolls keeps coming, what next? The Awareness program should also help to educate the society on the right authorities to report cyberbullying incidence to. They need to understand the point at which they need to approach these authorities and what should constitute their report. For example, if you are being harassed on Facebook, one can easily report the post as a spam and Facebook will remove such post and block the person from your profile. Also, they need to understand the effect of filing a false report and as such will need to have evidence to back-up their claims and a good way of doing this, is printing out the conversation records between you and the bully before it gets taken down.  However, using awareness and education to put cyberbullying in check is a model of using a change in social norms to tackle a problem created by technology.
Cyberbullying is no more an infant problem, as it has grown to the point where it is a thorn in the flesh of the society and must be removed with the stiff hand of the Law. It’s high time we started passing bills and laws to address this issue of cyberbullying. We need to start seeing it as equivalent to crimes such as assisted suicide and stalking amongst a few others. For instance, about 49 states in US have a bullying law but only 16 of these states actually cater for cyberbullying and only 12 states have criminal sanctions attached to this issue (Well, this is an improvement compared the status of cyberbullying prior to the Megan Meier case). So, we can see that the law has not really being used when it comes to addressing this issue. Cyberbullying needs to be properly catered for in the law by using the school as a control point. Schools need to be given the right or ability to sanction students who indulge in cyberbullying of another student because the school is where majority of this events occur. Laws needs to be passed that prohibit anyone from emotionally attacking individuals with the use of internet or any technology device. However, in doing this, the judiciary should thread with care because some people can use this as a weapon against you. For instance, a girl and a guy who just broke up, depending on the cause of their break-up, can choose to send mean messages to each other and then one party decides to report as being cyberbullied. The authorities shouldn’t just bounce on the other party, but I believe they should use the “3-notice before takedown” model of addressing the cyber-squatting. With this model, once a report has been made, the accused cyberbully is being warned or instructed to stop contacting the other party but if he continues with the act, he can then be taken-in as a cyberbully. Also the law can help check cyberbullying by increasing the penalty of someone found guilty of committing the crime. A five year jail term or expulsion from school being attached to cyberbullying will drastically reduce its occurrence. Restrictions of certain age bracket to social sites such as Facebook, Twitter and My Space amongst a few can be used to put cyberbullying in check.

A number of hate sites or pro-suicide sites are still in existence and they go a long way in contributing to teaching these kids on how to be aggressive and even ways commit suicide. Such sites should be taken down by passing laws that prohibits their existence because having a website that portrays such information is as good as having a TV station that teaches hate and how to commit suicide. The sword arm of the law has been idle long enough doing nothing about this issue; it’s high time we passed bills for the removal of such site and prosecution of its owners.       

This is the part I find fascinating the most, when you use the cause of the problem to solve the problem.  Advances in technology and internet being the cause of the problem can be used to solve the same problem. In using the internet as a means of providing solutions to the problem, we can make the websites or channel of communication as a controlled point. A very good example is in the recent upgrade on Facebook where you can properly report incidence of what matters to you. All you need to do is report an item as spam and follow a process which helps Facebook to identify the cause of your action and know if they need to take further actions on the account. Also, just the way spam mails can be filtered, there should be ways in which hate mails or degrading mails can also be filtered. This can help a great deal because the sender can choose to send whatever he wants but the message doesn’t get to the receiver. Technology can also be used to prevent some certain registered user from contacting another user i.e. you can easily block a person who you see as a troll on profile. This prevents the person from being able to further contact you, this can also be done on the cell phone by screening the calls you get.  However, the above suggestions do not prevent users from creating a fake or dubious account profile because most cyberbullies hide behind the screen of anonymity. But then if we push further to ensure that account holders are really who they say they are, we will be pushing our boundaries on privacy issues.

Really I’m not sure where this next solution suggestion should fall under, if it should be under the technological approach or the Law approach and that is suspension of the bully’s ISP account. From my perspective of the situation I believe that is too gross. Fine, I understand in tackling this problem, we have to go all out at it and fight against it but depriving the bully of the internet is also bullying in another form. But if the IM/social site account is taken down, I reasonably think that’s fair enough. I’m sure you want to ask me, “What if he opens another account and continue the act?”, then I think it’s justifiable to take-down his/her ISP.

Still on the search for solutions to cyberbullying, Ms. Parry suggested that if we all abide by the online etiquette ‘Netiquette’, it’ll save us a whole lot of headache and this netiquette include;
  • Start by making sure you are sending things to the right place, that it arrives and that the right person gets it. (A mistake in one letter could be deadly and have adverse effect so be sure to double-check) 
  • Is it worth sending? Don’t waste peoples’ time or bandwidth with junk, chain e-mails and false rumors.
  • Proofread and spell-check your e-mails and make sure they know who you are.
  • Don’t attack others online, say anything that could be considered insulting or that is controversial. (This is usually where it all starts from).
  • Don’t forward other people’s e-mails without their permission or share their personal information and if you have to, make sure it contains nothing personal /offensive to anyone.
  • Are you angry when you are writing this message? If you are, just take a 5 minutes break to cool off.
  • Don’t reply to spam, even to ask to be removed from their mailing list.
  • How private is the message you are sending? Are you willing to have others read this message or forward it to others without your permission?
Parents also have an important role to play in the fight against cyberbullying because asides the child being involved they are the most affected by the effect of cyberbullying. So, the parents themselves have to be actively involved in the activities of wards both on campus and off campus, both online and offline. The parent should be watchful of the sites they let them visit, monitor the activities of this children online and once they notice any irrational behavior from the child, they should seek to know what’s happening with the ward and request for help if necessary. Parental control on Windows for example can be used to limit the access of their wards online. Also, parents should make their wards understand that the virtual world should remain online and they should never make any meeting arrangement with someone they met online.

In conclusion, I’ll say in other to address this issue properly we must understand that most kids that get involved in cyberbullying have various motives for the action and these reasons must be put into consideration before judging them. Most, kids get involved in form of defense for themselves and they bully because they have been bullied. This will really go a long way in helping us determine our course of action. 


Monday, 23 September 2013

Covenant University

Regarding my last post, I wasn't expecting as much attention as I got from the post but it is actually good to know you all took time out to read that boring stuff *lol*. Anyways, this time I’m here to nag and it breaks my heart to inform you that you’ll have to just deal with it.

I’m taking this IELTS exam soon and I’m probably just using this to work on my writing skills and actually I found out recently that you can’t use ‘due to’ and ‘reason’ in the same sentence, funny right? Like, you can’t say “The reason for his absence was due to the heavy rainfall”. I never knew this rule all my life of speaking English and that’s the issue I have with English language, the rules are just too much to bear!!!  I’m still not very certain about when to use ‘been’ or ‘being’ and ‘advice’ or ‘advise’, I just get confused and finally use one of them.  Also, in recent times, I have been having issues with spelling of words; for instance, ’spelt’ doesn't seem correct anymore but ‘spelled’ seems correct now, same thing goes for ‘dreamt’ and ‘dreamed’, ‘behaviour’ and ‘behavior’, ‘favour’ and ‘favor’ and a couple of other words. This is probably one of the disadvantages of moving to North America as writing can become somewhat clumsy because mixing up British spellings and American spellings is sometimes inevitable.   

That aside, I spoke to my sister, who is in her final year (it’s amazing how time flies, I can remember the first day I dropped her at school. Roun-tin can attest to this) at Covenant University (CU), on skype some few days back and she was complaining to me about Covenant University. For some reasons I don’t know, I get agitated when discussions about CU comes up. After reminding her of how I persuaded her not to go to CU then, how she didn’t listen and how she was head over heels for CU, I finally gave her the advice to please be careful as she only had a few more months to graduate. The honest truth is that it takes the grace of God to graduate from that school ‘dent free’ and by ‘dent free’ I mean a clean record because the way I see it is that most of the administrative staff are just there to ensure that you don’t graduate.

Fortunately, I am a graduate of CU and no matter how much I try to run from this fact, I still have very strong ties with CU. Covenant University definitely holds a large chunk of my history and a determining factor of some of the beliefs I hold today.  It’s quite fascinating when you meet people and they have the notion that all CU students are self-righteous. Well, I led a normal life when I was in CU and so did I when I left and this to some extend gave these people a more relaxed view of CU students/graduates. Morally, I wasn’t the best student and I even took some silly risks that when I look back now, I just  can’t phantom what I was thinking when I took those actions but then I guess it was my mother’s prayers that kept me. As a matter of fact, the only rule I held up high when I was in CU was, “Don’t get caught” and the clause that follows that rule is that “if you ever get caught, know the right person to meet”. I’m sure this rule might want to steer up some controversies but that’s all I’m saying about it and I’ll leave you to interpret it whichever way you choose to.

Covenant University rules are weird no doubt but in as much as I hate to admit, there are some habits CU imbibed in me that I am grateful for.  For example, I find it really difficult to sit on the floor and I see people that do differently; I mean: “Kings and Queens don’t sit on the floor”.  I know this is nothing but it’s just funny how these little talks shape our thought pattern.  In my opinion, some of their rules are useless and uncalled for. I feel the ban on use of phone should have been lifted by now because I see them not lifting this ban as just pride. It’s just share pride and the abuse of power on the institution’s administrative part. There’s still no justification for this rule only maybe for the fact that it has now become a trademark for the university.
Another rule that came up during the conversation was the ‘No pairing’ rule (Most people make the mistake of using ‘peering’). Anyways, I think I lost it when it got to this new topic. Learned the revised version of the handbook (for those who don’t know what the handbook is, it is a book containing the constitution of Hebron) says that no boy and girl should be seen together after 7 pm no matter the situation neither  should they be seen holding hands or touching at any time of the day. Ok, fine! I understand the fact that you say no interaction between the female and male folks after 7 pm because as we all know, after this time 'bad-bad' things happen in the dark :d . But when you say that they should not hold hands or touch in anyway because that will lead to ‘Konji’ and when they are held with ‘konji’, since they can’t have sex in school, they go to their hostel to masturbate. Seriously, at this point, I lost it. That is the worst justification to an action I have ever heard, that’s just dumb. The next thing I said was; “it just means that’s what this people themselves go to their houses to do”. When they further asked the DSA (Dean of Student Affairs), of which I have a personal beef for the present one, if he holds or touch women, he claims to be married and he doesn't hold or touch any other woman. That’s just hypocrisy at a new height and the honest truth is that’s just what most CU staffs and students are, Hypocrites.  The staffs themselves don’t practice what they preach and most of the students have a dual life, the life they lead in school and the one they do outside the school. Covenant University ain’t producing new generation of leaders but new generation of hypocrites.

Another thing I noticed about the rules in CU is that most of their rules are not comprehensive enough and are left to be interpreted at the discretion of the administrative staff. Different rules can be interpreted by different people in different ways and this just makes the students more vulnerable. I remembered an incident that happened in my first year when my roommate reported me for having secular songs on my laptop. As a sharp-boy, I shift-deleted my music folder, so nothing could be found on my system. Meanwhile, I still had a music video “Runaway Love by Mary J Blige and Ludacris” on the laptop, well, I didn't consider that song a secular song. To cut the long story short, after long hours of keeping me in the ‘Revo’s’ office and they couldn't find anything on the laptop, they said Runaway Love is a secular song because Ludacris featured in it and so I was charged for possession of secular songs but luckily I was pardoned.

In summary, all I’m just trying to say is that Covenant University is not doing so much of a great job in preparing their students for the world outside the walls of Canaanland. Being ‘religious’ doesn't get you the things you want outside Covenant University. I don’t see anything spectacular about the University and sometimes I just can’t help but wonder why a lot of parents still keep falling in love with the school but I don't think I'll let any of my wards attend the school. This is my opinion and I’m not trying to impose it on you, so I suggest you try not to impose yours on me in the comments.

Monday, 9 September 2013

The pain and shame Nigerians outside the country face

I must first let you know that I write this piece of note (or maybe article) with so much pain and shame as my heart aches for a change. I think it is high time we put ourselves, as Nigerians, in check. However, before I continue I must let you understand the fact that I am Nigerian and I am poud to be a Nigerian, come rain come shine. As a matter of fact, my children must grow up in Nigeria and understand the way things are done there, it only makes them smarter.  I saw a flash image recently that says, "Speak-English, Kiss-French, Drive-German, Dress-Italian, Fight-Chinese, Spend-Arabians, Party-Caribbean, Think-Nigerian". The picture made me smile and made me proud once again to be a Nigerian.
However, it is a different ball game when you are outside the country with the image Nigerians have portrayed to the world. It is really heartbreaking when you talk to five foreigners and what all five foreigners can tell you about Nigerians is how fraudulent they are or how they know at least someone that had been defrauded by a Nigerian. And to be honest with you, it is very saddening that these people don't even know about the good sides of Nigerians, but do we blame them? No. It is what we have portrayed ourselves to be over the years. When you meet them and they finally know you are a Nigerian, the next statement you hear is "I heard that there are lot of 4-19 (yea, they call them four-nineteen) guys in Nigeria", "I know someone who just recently got scammed by a Nigerian", "I read about the Nigerian scammers and how they operate", and the list goes on and on. I recently went for an interview and even though I had screened out everything that states ‘Nigeria' out of my resume, the interviewer still managed to link me with Nigeria through the classified ad website (www.isaleeko.com.ng, you should check out the website to post free ads) project I am currently working on, through the domain name, .ng. She then said that we should digress a little from the interview while she told me about how she went on a classified ad website to check for a cottage, as she will soon be going on vacation, and she couldn't help but notice someone's post that was warning people about cottages on the website and how she just got scammed by a Nigerian there. Again, i was very sad to hear such a story, in an interview for that matter, "hope she doesn't judge me based on this" as that was what was running through my head. Anyways, she then continued to ask me what I thought about the whole situation.
The first thing I told her was that sometimes it is greed on the part of the people that got scammed. But really, in their defense, like a friend, Destiny, would say, every human is greedy and we are all trying to find ways to acquire more wealth or at least spend lesser if possible, it is just human nature. So, they being greedy is not a justification that they deserve to be scammed. I then continued to tell her that most of these fake posts usually have some flimsy mistakes in them that can actually be enough reason to flag off the posts, but the greed in people won't let them notice it. There's this saying I grew up hearing from my parents, "When an offer seems too good to be true, then it's not true" and it is just sad how many people just don't get it. Whenever, anyone is offering you something that is outrageous, it is time to thread with care or totally back-out of the deal.
I further went ahead to explain to her another mistake most of the Canadian and western people make, if the deal ever involves you having to send money outside the shores of your country, then don't do it, no matter who they claim to be. I just get crept out when I hear that they meet someone on the internet that is offering a service they want and he tells them he is on a business trip to somewhere outside the country, at worse Africa, and that they should send the money to him via Western Union, "who does that?"  If he claims he has a service to offer you, then he should have a payment method that is within your country because the honest truth is, once the money leaves your country, it is not coming back to you. But thank God for the good record keeping systems, databases and security systems they have in this part of the world, if you send money to someone within the country, it's traceable to some extent and if you do get lucky, you'll probably get your money back.
However, I don't want you to get me all wrong, these things happen here too, there are fraudsters here in Canada and western countries too, I have heard and read a couple of stories, and piece of advice for those travelling to the western countries, you still have to be careful. But what makes the westerners different from us is that the society here frowns at such incidents while our society embraces or rather indifferent about it. What I however, wonder the most is this "why is Nigeria the most tagged with fraud?" This is the part I really don't understand. There are other African countries that major in this fraud business but they aren't ever tagged with fraud. As a matter of fact, I received more spam mails having links to other African countries than those having links with Nigeria. I probably want to guess it is because of the population and how dispersed over the world we are and as such people get to talk more about the encounters they have had with Nigerians rather than other African countries or maybe it has just gotten to the point where they don't even care about the origin of the scam, once it's from Africa, it's from Nigeria.
Another thing that baffles me about this whole saga, is the amount of effort, talent and skill the so called ‘Yahoo boys' put into this their chosen line of business. I have met some of these guys in time past and I must say they are intelligent in their own way. Some of these guys know the whole states and cities of the countries they deal with and sure some citizens of these same countries don't even know they exist.  Most of these guys don't even sleep at night; they are awake all night sending spam mails and following up with the previously sent mails. How about the cost of connecting to the internet? Well that's not cheap either, to get a reliable, fast 24 hours internet in Nigeria should cost at least 20,000 Naira a month. Well, what's the essence of having internet connection when you don't a laptop or desktop? A fairly used laptop with a good processing power will cost around 40,000 Naira. All I am trying to buttress is that these guys invest a lot of time, money and effort into these things and if they could just but re-channel all these time, money and effort into something more productive, Nigeria will definitely be heading for greatness.
I believe it is not too late to retrace our steps, embrace what is right, channel our efforts to the betterment of the nation and think of the consequence of our actions as it affects not just us but as Nigerians at large. I am a proud Nigerian and Nigeria is my home. Long Live Nigeria. 


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